Wild Love Seeds

I'm here to walk with you through the fire and out the other side as the woman you were always meant to be... This is the place where I share transformative words to accompany you in life.  I'm Kas <3

Hello!

How are you?  No... I'm not being polite!  I REALLY mean it... let me know, hit return, share with me.  Tell me Everything!

How am I?  The usual... complex, up and down, loving life, in the midst of creating a massive collage that speaks of our shadowy darkness and all the distractions from it, (see pic in the header) accompanying those in my Planet Kas group whilst fighting my Inherited Story of being born the scapegoat and therefore, a total fucking failure.  That's it in a nutshell, for today anyway :-D tomorrow could be a whole other ballgame!  Well, I am only human, afterall.

It is so true... we can be so many 'things' and all at the same time!  This is what we therapists call "Parts of Self".  We, you, me, your parents, your manager, your kids... are all full of a whole inner community of selves - and that is what makes us all so interesting AND so utterly frustrating to relate with at times.

Basically, we are just all human, being our human selves, doing the best we can (well, I believe the majority of us really are doing the best we can) with who we are and what was dished out to us from day 1.

You might be wondering "What on earth is Kas talking about... her Inherited Story???

Lean in... let me share all about it... 

You too have an inherited story and I can guarantee it has impacted You throughout your entire life.  Yes... it really has influenced everything you do and how you live and relate (without you fully knowing it) ...AND it can be interrupted - which is where I come in... I interrupt inherited stories and I do this in lots of different ways.

I call my therapeutic process (which is within Planet Kas - everything I do is within the container of Planet Kas) "Wild Love Seeds" and my process helps explain to you, that the one dimensional, Inherited Story given to you in childhood and was not up for debate, was basically like a program installed directly into your brain.  Wow... YES, this is true... 

and worse still???  No-one ever tells you about it...  well, except me of course - because I'm a Truth-teller!

So when you were little, you were told (in a myriad of ways) You're too much, too soft, too strong, too wrong, too bad, too demanding..." and so on - because that list is massive!!! 

It is often told in a short story form, with a soft smile of fondness that makes it easier for us to simply absorb, without question.  (so dangerous) 

Your inherited story could begin..."When you were born...." or "I remember when you were just 2 years old...." followed by (whichever person: mum, grannie, uncle albert) told you their version of your inherited story ...which slipped off their tongue without hesitation.  And we, the little ones, swallowed it up whole, without question...  

Well we didn't know we were allowed to question the big people back then did we...? It was far too dangerous for our survival to be 'rude' or 'cheeky' or 'impertinent'... (all that power and control they had over us!).

So yes, as I was saying... our Inherited Stories are very dangerous stories.  They re-route our life's path to suit the family and cultural system that we were born in to. Our Real, Core Self suddenly hijacked and rerouted down the path of the family of origin, their system of beliefs and values which kept them feeling comfy and safe (but very limited in how they lived their lives).

Through my Wild Love Seeds experience (in tiny groups of approx 4 women, in my Zoom room) can share our inherited story and then - wonderfully... joyfully... you can uncover your Real, True Story — not given to us by others, but written by ourselves, shaped by our real experiences in this world.

(and please do not worry or be put off about 'writing' - this is NOT academic...!!! We don't give a damn about full stops or capital letters... NO!  We are just so excited to be finally writing our real, truthful, honest, accurate story we scrawl it without a care in the world!!!)

Wild Love Seeds group experience enables you to share YOUR True story that feels alive, contradictory, real, and honest in all its complexity.  The story that we know deep inside of us but may have been afraid to utter aloud, given how our truth was always received by those who preferred us to live by their story... which basically kept us small and controlled.

We knew it deep down, we might have attempted to share it with others... BUT their needs were so huge, they just couldn't allow you to have your own truth. 

Wild Love Seeds is where you are rerouted back to YOU and your one precious life.  I am going to help you do this, simply and in such a wonderful, feel-good way, you are going to be full of joy.

You. Me. Each of us — multidimensional, multifaceted, made up of many truths, even the ones that clash. That's what it means to be human.  And all parts of you are welcome in my presence - always.  I don't have anything to win or lose about You becoming real, true, authentic and living life as YOU wish to (unlike your parents or partner who need you to be the way THEY want you to be!!!)

I want you to know I hold this space because I live this work too. I know what it is to be given a brutal story from the beginning about who we are. I know what it is to carry that story for years — no... decades!!  Believing it must be true - because they said so.

I also know the power of digging down, finding the truth that was always there underneath — and planting it like a wild seed of love so it can re-seed and scatter far and wide, healing the world.

When I share parts of my own truth, I do so because I have rooted them deeply. I have committed to my own therapeutic journey over a long period of time where I take everything to be witnessed, loved, and healed in my own therapy journey, so that I can continue to show up fully for those I work with.  This is the secret to being a potent, loving Leader.

I share my truths so you know you're not alone — and you never need to look after me.  I'm held elsewhere.

Wild Love Seeds group is a place for YOU to be seen, heard, loved and witnessed as you grow what is true for you.  You don't need to impress, perform, or fix. You do not need to hide. You do not need to carry what is not yours.  In my groups, I do the holding work and you just come and heal and grow.  It is a one-off experience But... you are allowed to come back and do it again any time you wish.

No one in Wild Love Seeds is 'broken'. No one needs to be 'saved'. We just need to uncover our Truth, our authentic Story and hold each other in tenderness and love whilst we witness them.

Wild Love Seeds is a small group on purpose.

Women, like-minded, just like YOU and me...  will gather together in this special, precious group either on zoom or if you are local, here in my art studio.  A spacious, slow paced experience (approx 2.5 hours) so we have time to be real, messy, and true — not rushed - and most definitely so we can all feel Loved.

I invite you to invest in Your Becoming, Your Truth, and the seeds you will carry forward into your life.  The work that we do in the Wild Love Seeds group won't just stay there — it scatters love seeds outwards.  Everywhere you go you will be planting your own wild love seeds, scattering them far and wide and the whole world will benefit.

Every time you plant a wilder, kinder, more truthful seed inside yourself, you create a possibility for that same love and truth to spread into your relationships, and seeding more love wherever you go, whoever you relate with. You will be able to sniff out the inherited stories that others live by and invite them into their truth too.  Now... THAT really is something.

If you say yes to this experience I will send more info about my forthcoming groups.

We women are incredible at holding and feeling emotions and I know 100% the more we release, the healthier we become. This is an opportunity for you to step out of that shrunken small space they fitted you in to (on purpose) and a moment for you to EXPAND into who You truly are - and feel loved and held by us in the group.  It will be so special and UNLEASHING!

This isn't about 'Writing' academically or even grammatically! We don't care about spelling mistakes or scrawly handwriting! NO... this is not school!  This is raw, gritty expression, Kassi-style!

We care about YOUR story your self expression which is Vital for your health and well being. There are so many benefits but... I won't even start on this!  Let's get together, do it and you can feel the impact.  Wherever you are in the world, we will make the time zones work.

May every seed you plant, grow wild, true, and in your own time.  May you remember: you are not who they said you were.  You are your own becoming.  You are YOU.

If you would like to participate please reply and let me know and I will email you more info.  Please add me to your contacts so my reply doesn't end up in your spam or junk!

with love

Kas

OH! and PS...  "Perfectly Coiffed Pubes" my new book is out there and available from Amazon in paperback or kindle.

There's also a workbook you can download to dig deeper into each piece in the book... there are 55 pieces...  potent... awakening...  

and here is a message I just received this morning from a wonderful woman who has allowed me to share her words here:  

"Hello lovely Kas, thank you!  I am here to say I've started your book.  To say it's 'bloody brilliant' doesn't quite cut it - borderline genius perhaps!  LOVE the short lines!  Full of impact.  Defo suits my reading style.  Feeling a whole range of emotions!  Ooft!  It's speaking volumes.  Reading just before bed for the past 2 nights and journaling.  VERY vivid dreams.  I'm truly in awe of your insights and how clearly it is coming across.  My jaw keeps dropping and a light bulb going off above my head!  I'm only up to page 23! AWAKENING indeed!  I feel it has landed in my lap at the perfect time and I will gain a lot of strength from your words <3  You have worked so hard on your book and provided such a magnificent 'truth bomb' to the world I just had to let you know how I was feeling <3 truly grateful xx

Wow... I needed to hear that this morning... no matter how my world looks on the outside I am after all, just a girl, doing her best, full of complexity, love and her many parts of self!  That's me... love, Kas x